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03/13/23 03:35 PM #10337    

 

Terri Baxter (Whirrett)

aFirst of all, Happy Birthday, cuz Suzi! And thank you for your birthday wishes as well! I often read the website as well but don't respond! Guilty! Dave and I are about to celebrate our 54 Anniversary and he is about to turn 80! Yikes! We are both blessed with good health despite a few mishaps in the last couple of years. We live in South Carolina and enjoy the beauty in our state. Our son And family live in Charleston. We would like to see them more than we do, but will being down there soon to see the grand girls, 17 and 14.We had the pleasure of visiting Marv and Judy in Key West last year, and they stopped by this year on their was down there.We hope to be in Bloomington his summer around reunion time. Hope to see many of you then! Fondly, Boo (Terri)

 

 

 

 

 


03/13/23 04:47 PM #10338    

Linda Bristow (Elias)

Boo:

So glad I saw your post.  I wish I could see you this summer, but I can't.  Because of where I live, and being high risk, I still have to wear a mask when outside of my house. (including work, groceries, gas, etc.)  The immigrants in town are an ongoing issue.  We don't know what any of them may have.  They try to get donations from us outside of the grocery, as if they are helping you load your groceries in your vehicle.  If you give them a dollar, they act insulted and want more.  All of us older people need to be more careful right now.

I grocery shop at 6-7 am to get around  them being there.

I still will not fly yet either.   I hope you all are still there when I am ready to travel! 

Blessings and love to all,

Linda


03/14/23 08:55 AM #10339    

David Brock

Mel-- Prayers for you and your family--God bless


03/14/23 10:00 AM #10340    

 

Terri Baxter (Whirrett)

Mel, So sorry about the awful accident! Hope she is healing well! Glad it wasn't worse


03/14/23 06:58 PM #10341    

 

Melvin (Mel) Theobald

To Boo and all the others who have expressed their concerns, my daughter has several broken bones in her right foot, ankle and lower leg. They will mend, but the separation of the bones also involves tendons and ligaments. The prognosis is good, but she cannot put weight on her leg for several weeks. When we talk, she tells me how grateful she is that it wan't her daughter. Hearing that, I remind het that she is my daughter. So yes, I feel the pain as any of us would if it was one of our children. Many of you have been through such things or worse. Know that we are optimistic and she will be fine when all this is over. Then I read Dick's account of his motorcycle accident and think, "OMG, it could have been so much worse." That seems to be the thing that keeps us sane. Many thanks for your support.


03/15/23 10:13 AM #10342    

 

Nancy Whiteman (Hoover)

Prayers for continued healing for your duaghter. When anything happens to our children we can't help but feel their pain!

 


03/15/23 12:12 PM #10343    

Julie Hart

i can't believe you all remember so many of your teachers!  i can't recall very many of them.  i know i didn't like mrs. bowman (french.)  none of them had any influence on me at all.  it seems that those of you who were in the arts remember their teachers as being more influential - leaving me out as i dont have a single artsy bone.  i remember mrs. warren (2nd grade oakland) putting me in the hall with scotchtape over my mouth since i wouldn't be quiet.  in her defense that was the year she had ~42 kids in her class before they built the addition to oakland.  since it was a new school it's mind boggling that they didn't realize how fast they were going to run out of room.  i do remember mrs. stewart the principal.

mel - hope your daughter is continuing to improve.  it helps that she has such a good attitude. i  think you said it was hit and run.  did they find the person responsible?

i'm still traveling a lot.  but enjoyed having a reason to stay home during covid since i'm so introverted. am aiming for 65 countries (1/3 of all of them) and then i'll call it a day.  also playing a lot of bridge to keep my mind active.

my son got tired of the big city (houston) and moved back to longview since he can work from anywhere. nice to have him and his 4 kids close by. another daughter lives in the dallas area and another daughter in houston so fairly close.


03/17/23 02:33 PM #10344    

 

David Long

A Smile for Today:

 

DOLPHIN TRAINER 

 An elderly man rear ends a guy driving an expensive sports car. Enraged, the guy hops out of his car and confronts the old man.  “Look what you did to my car” he yells. “you’re gonna give me $10,000 right now or I’m gonna beat you to a bloody pulp!”

 “Oh my” says the old man, I don’t have that kind of money.  Let me call my son, he trains dolphins and he’ll know what to do. 

Dolphins, the other driver huffs, while rolling his eyes.  The old man pulls out his phone, dials his son and just as the son answers, the irate man snatches the phone away from the old man.

"So, YOU’RE a dolphin trainer, huh?  Well, your old man here just rear ended my car and I need ten grand right now or I’m gonna beat you AND your old man to a bloody pulp".

"I’ll be there in 10 minutes, says the voice calmly on the other end".

Exactly ten minutes later a jeep pulls up and a guy hops out and proceeds to pulverize the bully, leaving him in a bloody heap on the side of the road.

When he’s finished, he walks over to his father and says:  “for the LAST TIME dad…. I train SEALS…. NAVY SEALS…. NOT dolphins”

 

Semper Fi and Happy St. Patrick's Day

 

ps:  The Archdiocese of Chicago Did NOT give special dispensation for eating Corned Beef on Friday during Lent!  Sin at your own risk ;-}


03/17/23 03:49 PM #10345    

Linda Bristow (Elias)

David:

I loved that story!

Linda


03/17/23 07:20 PM #10346    

 

Richard Gray

David Long - I read one the other day on Facebook, while not as good as yours I found it funny A grade school teacher said to the little boy. You know when I stand on my head the blood rushes to my head. Why doesn;t the blood rush to my feet when I stand upright. The little boy replied "because you have something in your feet". 


03/18/23 10:20 AM #10347    

Linda Bristow (Elias)

My friend Janie Graham and Vicki, a judge's wife, are truly animal lovers.  In the 90's they would be guest lectures for first grades around the town.  They would explain that it wasn't enough to just love your pet.  You need to groom them, give them food and water and exercise.  It is important to walk them.  A little boy held up his hand and said-Lady, you can't walk a fish!


03/18/23 12:04 PM #10348    

 

Karen Sue (Suzi) Denton (Merritt)

Cuz Teri, thank you for the birthday wishes.  Glad you are doing better.  
Mel, sorry to hear about your daughter but sounds like the prognosis is good.  
Prayers for all our classmates who live on the west coast.  

 

Love to all 

Suzi
 


03/19/23 05:36 PM #10349    

 

David Long

You know, there's a fine line between a numerator and denominator.

 

Only a fraction of the people with find this funny.

 

(especially true if you had Mr. Drew)


03/21/23 10:21 AM #10350    

 

David Long

Thoughts for Today

 

Some of these are tough to do, but I try.

 

The Six Ethics of Life

 

  • Before you pray – Believe
  • Before you speak – Listen
  • Before you spend – Earn
  • Before your write – Think
  • Before you quit – Try
  • Before you die – Live!!

03/21/23 05:29 PM #10351    

 

Melvin (Mel) Theobald

Dave Long, we've had class presidents, secretaries and treasurers, but I don't think we have ever had a "class philosopher." Well dear friend, you're it. I'd also like to nominate you for "class humorist." Do we have to put this up to a vote? How about "class historian?" In that catagory, I'd like to nominate Jack Keefe. Does anyone else have any nominations?


03/22/23 11:47 AM #10352    

 

David Long

A Tale of Woe

 

 

Safe Ship Moving and Best American Moving, LLC

 

If you don’t do anything today, I’d recommend that you Don’t Hire or Contract with Safe Ship Moving and their mover of choice, Best American Moving, LLC..

 

I unfortunately did both and we are living to regret it.  To contract for our move from the Kansas City area to Chicago, I did all the normal things.  I contacted 3 moving companies, Mayflower, United Van Lines, and Safe Ship Moving, the latter because they advertised as a veteran owned company and I’m a Marine Corps Vietnam Veteran.  I always try to support veteran owned companies when possible.

 

Both Mayflower and United sent agents out to do a thorough walk-through of our home and provide written quotes of all the moving expenses.  The two quotes were within $1,200 of each other.  Safe Ship, based in Florida, requested copies of the two quotes and based their quote on what United and Mayflower provided.  They explained that their price would be lower as they didn’t have the overhead of having to pay someone to come to our home to provide the quote.  That made sense at the time.

 

It was explained that their quote was based upon cubic feet instead of weight, and using the quotes from Mayflower & United, they were able to accurately convert weight to cubic feet.

 Safe Ship’s quote was several hundred dollars less than the other company’s and because they were ‘veteran owned’, I chose to contract with them.  MY BAD DECISION!  I was provided with both the phone numbers for Safe Ship’s customer service and the ‘agent’ that brokered the contract and told they would be available at any time if I had questions or problems.  Note: once the contract was completed, the agent totally left the picture and never accepted any phone calls or returned any request for follow-up.  He was just a ‘sales guy’ as the customer service agent for the company explained. 

 

Moving on to Best American Moving, they were a disaster waiting to happen from day one.  We were told they would be on-site to begin packing between noon and 1pm; they didn’t show up.  Calling Safe Ship’s customer service, I was told they were delayed on a job and would be at our house in an hour.  An hour and half later, after they still failed to materialize, I called back and was told they were still unloading but would be at our house in an hour.  I then inquired as to the exact location of the truck and was told it was in Hutchinson, Kansas, but that they were just finishing up and would be with us in less than an hour.  At that point, I explained that Safe Ship was being lied to by Best American Moving, as Hutchinson was in fact a three-hour drive from hour home.  I asked how they were going to be able to pack everything in such a short amount of time and was told they would have a crew of four people to do the packing and they would load the next morning.  Bottom line, so far, instead of being onsite between noon and 1pm, the movers arrived around 6:30pm.  This is important, although I didn’t realize the ramifications at the time, the first words from the driver were “Wow, you’ve got a lot of stuff!”

 

Okay, we’re off to a rocky start, and then it gets worse.  The crew of four turns out to be just the driver and his helper to pack and load an entire home.  I’m on the phone again, where is the crew that was promised, well, the story changes and the crew was delayed but would be there in the morning.  The driver and his helper worked until 10:30 the first night packing.  The next morning, the same two people show up and when I asked where’s the rest of your crew, was told they’d be there soon.  A while later, two other guys show up but were pretty ineffectual in what they did and there was a lot of standing around.  I complained to the driver, the onsite person in charge of the move, and he ended up firing the guys.  SIDE NOTE: my wife had withdrawn money from the bank to give as tips to the guys for their efforts – OUR BAD for leaving her purse in the open in the bathroom, but all the money was stolen. We’re down $200.

 

The packing and loading continued.  More and more boxes are packed but the space on the truck is shrinking a lot faster than expected for a load of our size home.  The driver makes a point of showing me the space (cubic feet) was being used in the truck and that we’re “probably going to use more space than quoted”.  Red Flag – more space = more money for the move.   We are now to the point where two thirds of our possessions are loaded and the truck is completely full and I’m told they are going to have to rent another truck.  This saga is getting to be too long, but bottom line, there’s a second truck all our possessions are loaded and they’re ready to leave, except for the detail about how much it’s now going to cost. 

 

Based upon our quote, we expected to pay Best American Moving $6,000 and change over and above what we had already paid to Safe Ship Moving.  The driver then presents us with a total $16,000 to complete the move.  It’s back on the phone, for hours, negotiating the price.  We finally are worn down and agree to a total of $11,000.  Customer service at Safe Ship is ineffectual through the whole process and actually complained to me that he had to spend so much of his evening on the phone with me dealing with the problem.

 

At this point, we’ve dealt with the price issue and begin our drive to Chicago, an approximately nine-hour trip.  An hour and a half into the trip we decide to stop for the night as it’s after midnight. We continue the trip the next day and arrive in Chicago around 5:30pm and while still in Chicago rush-hour traffic, receive a call from Best American Moving telling us that they will need a cashiers check, money order, or wire transfer of the balance of the move expense ($11,000) before the driver will unload our possessions.  This shouldn’t be a problem, so the next morning I sign into Bank of America and execute a wire transfer to Best American Moving (per the transfer instructions provided) paying the extra fee for an immediate transfer.  At this point, it’s just let’s get this over with!

 

What could go wrong?  Here’s what could go wrong – the wire transfer to Best American Moving is flagged by BoA with a fraud alert!  The transfer is held up until the banks work out that it is a legitimate transfer.  In the meantime, the driver and his helper are sitting in front of our building unwilling to start unloading even though I provided the wire transfer information to them.  They must receive the OK from New Jersey to begin unpacking.  I’m on the phone with the people in New Jersey and am told that the trucks are going to leave and would come back the next day and would only be staying around for another hour and if they left, I’d be responsible to for the extra expense of the truck rental and per diem for the driver and his helper.  The person in New Jersey was very unprofessional, almost yelling at me over the phone saying I should have made the wire transfer earlier and an ‘out of the blue’ comment that if I wanted the move for free, I should have moved it on my own.

 

At this point, Safe Ship has left the picture – no help there.  The wire transfer finally goes through and the driver and helper start unloading the 1st truck.  I inquire “Where’s your crew?”  “They’ll be here soon”….then the driver leaves in the other truck and is gone for an hour and comes back with another man to start unloading.  NOTE: Best American Moving doesn’t have a crew in Chicago – nor did they have a crew in Kansas -  the driver goes around to Home Depot and Lowes looking for people that want to work on an hourly basis, off book.  The person doesn’t speak English and apparently didn’t know what he was being hired for as they started negotiating the price he would be paid while standing in front of me.  The guy wanted $500 but settled for $120.  I have failed to mention that Chicago is experiencing a weird snow/rain/sleet storm and everyone and everything is getting wet.  We are semi-back on track and the unloading is proceeding with boxes being stacked inside at the loading dock for the building.  I complained to the driver about the slow progress and he get’s on the phone and somehow two more guys show up.  The two new guys are fantastic and the move progresses more quickly.  By 8:00pm both trucks are emptied and the crew is gone!

 

SCAM ALERT!  How did the price go up so much?  Remember, the comment “you’ve got a lot of stuff?”, well, basing the move on cubic feet instead of weight is how we got scammed.  By packing the boxes lighter than necessary, they used more space than was necessary, e.g. more than several boxes only had one or two small items in them and were stuffed with backing material for things that we’re fragile and several only had one or two books in them.   

 

Just so you don’t think I’m totally inept, I did research on the moving company through both Google and Yelp.  You will have noted that I have kept referring to them as Best American Moving which was their actual name.  I was provided, however, a quote by Safe Ship stating that Best American Movers would be doing the move.  My research was based upon the quote for Best American Movers not Best American Moving.  I was told that it was just a typo on the form.  Best American Movers have very good reviews – Best American Moving has terrible, well-deserved reviews.

 

The question is, now that it’s over, how did it go?  Here are a few examples: a flat screen tv was torqued and broken; a side table was totally destroyed; clothing on hangers were stuffed in boxes with shoes thrown on top; my sweaters were used as padding for a table lamp that was dismantled; the movers didn’t label any of the boxes as to the rooms they were from; our mattress was dropped while being unloaded from the truck and landed in a puddle of mud (we’re still working on the stain); a chair was destroyed and beyond repair, and as we still have unpacked boxes, I’m sure we will continue to find more ‘surprises’.

 

We would NEVER again use Safe Ship Moving or Best American Moving.  Complaints will be filed with D.O.T regarding the switch of name on the invoices and the manner in which the move took place.

 

Now that I've complained enough about the move, I'm going to start on income taxes, just to round out my day!


03/22/23 11:50 AM #10353    

 

David Long

Thought For the Day:

From Mark Twain:

 

The only way to keep your health is to eat what you don't want, drink what you don't like, and do what you're rather not.


03/24/23 12:44 PM #10354    

 

David Long

Thought for the Day - 3/24/2023

 

This is a quote from Harry S. Truman:

 

Never Kick a Fresh Turd on a Hot Day!


03/24/23 01:52 PM #10355    

Linda Bristow (Elias)

David Long:

As one who's father had many, many horses at one time.............I completely agree with HST's quote!

Linda


03/25/23 12:16 PM #10356    

 

David Long

Thought for the Day:  Saturday, March 25, 2003

 

For all you Bears fans, this is a quote from Mike Ditka:

 

You really never lose until you stop trying.

 

 


03/25/23 08:10 PM #10357    

 

Wendy Stephens (Cullen)

That is the worst moving story I have ever heard and I have heard a few.  Only one to top it, in a completely different way, was this.  Some friends of ours from our time living in Hong Kong had all of their worldly goods packed in a shipping container to be returned to the United States.  The container went overboard in heavy seas.  They had nothing.  Not sure how that got settled.  The man worked for the shipping company.


03/26/23 09:37 AM #10358    

 

David Long

 

 

Wishing everyone a great start to the new week.

 

There are 23 days left before the tax filing deadline.

 

 

 

This quote is from Voltaire.  It's one I've always tried to live by:

 

To Succeed in the World, it is not enough to be stupid, you must also be well mannered.


03/26/23 10:00 AM #10359    

 

David Long

The following is from a fellow Marine.  Having been to Beijing and having a wonderful Chinese college student stay with us for a few months, I know how difficut it is to translate between languages, but the following is too funny not to share.

 

Enjoy your visit to Beijing:

 

 

He went to Beijing recently and was given this brochure by the hotel. It is precious.
He keeps it and reads it whenever he feels depressed.
Obviously, it has been translated directly word for word, from Mandarin to English:
 
Getting There:
Our representative will make you wait at the airport. The bus to the hotel runs along the lake shore. Soon you will feel pleasure in passing water. You will know that you are getting near the hotel, because you will go round the bend. The manager will await you in the entrance hall. He always tries to have intercourse with all new guests.
The Hotel:
This is a family hotel, so children are very welcome. We of course are always pleased to accept adultery. Highly skilled nurses are available in the evenings to put down your children. Guests are invited to conjugate in the bar and expose themselves to others. But please note that ladies are not allowed to have babies in the bar. We organize social games, so no guest is ever left alone to play with them self.
The Restaurant:
Our menus have been carefully chosen to be ordinary and unexciting. At dinner, our quartet will circulate from table to table, and fiddle with you.
Your Room:
Every room has excellent facilities for your private parts. In winter, every room is in heat. Each room has a balcony offering views of outstanding obscenity! .. You will not be disturbed by traffic noise, since the road between the hotel and the lake is used only by pederasts.
Bed:
Your bed has been made in accordance with local tradition. If you have any other ideas please ring for the chambermaid. Please take advantage of her. She will be very pleased to squash your shirts, blouses and underwear. If asked, she will also squeeze your trousers.
Above All:
When you leave us at the end of your holiday, you will have no hope. You will struggle to forget it...

03/26/23 02:02 PM #10360    

Linda Bristow (Elias)

David:  I love that.  However, a similar reaction to a different language happens right here every day with people trying to handle Spanish.  Thank you so much!

Linda
 


03/26/23 06:48 PM #10361    

David Brock

Anybody that has translated for a foreign language class can sympathize with the translation--I have seen 1 or 2 and even translateda few things that were really awkward.


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