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Jack Habich
Steve Wilson called me about January 25th, to tell me about his worsening prognosis and thought I might want to let a few people know about it. A few days later, at the suggestion of
Ann Bailen, I sent an e-mail off this web site, and he got an avalanche of supportive e-mails, cards, and verbal messages and e-mails to me (which I conveyed to him). Some sent both e-mails and cards. "I didn't want to create a circus" he said to me. "What circus?" I asked, "I didn't force anybody to contact you". I called him most every day, to check on him.
As the activity subsided, he started calling me. "Just checking in" he would say, "how are you doing?" I could tell he was undergoing withdrawal from the "circus". It was obvious all the activity meant a lot to him, and he was frustrated that he couldn't respond. Imagine yourself sitting in a bed, knowing your days are numbered, and even with morphine, just watching westerns and game shows all day.
When he got his IPad, it became his window to the world, specifically to old friends from the Class of '64. This revived him. As Vicki, Dianne and Judy mentioned, he was e-mailing back and forth to them, as well as to Cheryl Turner and others. He went on this web site daily, and that really made his days more tolerable. He would talk about the "pushing pennies", the scraped nose, the Y dances, and other things on the Message Forum.
When I went to his house last Tuesday, (like Vicki, I live just 15-20 minutes away), and opened my first IPad, he had it on and tuned in to "09 Reunion Pictures". Somehow sensing his destiny, he had all the printed e-mail messages and cards ready to give to me, saying he did not need them anymore.
As Milan and I were talking, strange as it may sound, Steve played a major role in making this web site more successful. After the intitial e-mail about Steve went out, people responded, visited this web site more carefully, liked what they saw and stayed. Since then, the numbers and activity have dramatically increased. Not his only legacy, but a legacy nevertheless.
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